When someone you love dies, the world can suddenly feel upside down. Alongside grief, there are so many practical decisions to make—often quickly. One of the most personal is how to honour their life. That’s where I can help as a celebrant. Here’s what it’s like to work with me.

Getting in Touch

You might find me yourself, or come through a funeral director. Either way, I’ll:

• Offer my condolences and gentle guidance.
• Confirm the date, time, and place of the service.
• Explain how I can support you.

You don’t need all the answers. I’ll guide you every step of the way.

Our First Conversation

When you feel ready, we’ll have a chat. Whether in person (my preferred option), on the phone, or even online. This is your chance to tell me about your loved one: who they were, what mattered to them, the little things that made them unique. We might talk about:

• Their personality, humour, and relationships.
• Special memories, passions, or achievements.
• Music, readings, or contributions from family and friends.

There’s no pressure. You can talk, pause, laugh, or cry. I’m here to listen.

Creating the Ceremony

I’ll take what you share and craft a ceremony that truly reflects your loved one. This could include:

• A personal tribute or eulogy
• Moments for reflection, music, or symbolism
• Involvement from family or friends, if they wish
• Faith or cultural elements, if meaningful

Before the day, I’ll send a draft for you to read. Any changes are welcome; it’s your ceremony.

On the Day

I’ll be there early to support you and ensure everything runs smoothly. I’ll welcome everyone, guide the ceremony, deliver the tribute, and help everyone feel comfortable sharing memories. No matter the location, a crematorium, chapel, or woodland, I’ll help create a space where love and memories can be shared. After the Service Even after the ceremony, I’m still here. I can provide keepsakes, guidance on the internment of ashes, or share support resources if needed. There’s no expectation to be “okay” straight away.

Your Choice

Your ceremony should feel right for your loved one. Non-religious, spiritual, or lightly faith-based, it’s entirely up to you. I’m here to listen, understand, and help you say goodbye in a way that feels right for your family; with warmth, honesty, and respect.